[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by cam_calderon

That's the thing though - not everyone does. In this instance, one thing she could've done is not get blackout drunk. I am not saying this would have made any difference in this instance, and lots of teenagers get blackout drunk weekly, if not daily at college/uni.

Everyone has a difference risk tolerance level. It's risky walking out of your front door.

Maybe she thought sleeping with a champion junior hockey player who was on his way to NHL superstardom was an achievement. Maybe it was purely physical attraction. Another girl may've heard stories of what young men with wildly inflated egos get up to in the bedroom and would stick well clear.

Originally Posted by cam_calderon

I digress because this isn't the right thread, but there is such a thing as personal responsibility and decision-making.

Originally Posted by cam_calderon

Put it this way, if anyone here is a parent of a teenage girl I doubt they'd be encouraging them to hang around a known culture of hazing and lack of respect for peers. Being good at hockey brings out the worst in a lot of kids.

Originally Posted by cam_calderon

I know a couple people who've had their drinks spiked, and it obviously was not their fault. But you have to accept the premise there are sinister people out there and that drinks can be spiked, unless you're happy living in a fantasy land of sunshine and rainbows.

Jesus ####ing Christ

Can you please stop.


Or follow your own good advice

Originally Posted by cam_calderon

showing care and compassion is a good start.