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Originally Posted by SportsJunky
Your pet is the biggest problem in your marriage? What's happening?
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To be clear, being so isn’t going to cause a separation. But it’s been a drain. He was 2 when we got him from the pound, he’s 100 lbs and reactive and 4 years and thousands of dollars of courses and countless hours of time and effort and he’s just manageable. And the argument driver is, she isn’t disciplined with him so there is no consistency. We literally attended courses together for ages and I was the only one to fully buy in on the day to day with him. So he’ll basically never improve and it’s not even his fault. We can’t just have people pop over, we can’t leave him with anyone, we can’t go for walks as a family because it’s not even fun. Having friends kids over is super stressful for me as I take that super seriously. He’s extra pissy if our kid is with us. It’s just a daily grind that I’ve come to accept…. If I could do it all over again, I wouldn’t.
Still love him, still scritch him and tell him he’s a good boy every day.