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Originally Posted by 442scotty
They were very close. It was completely unexpected and apparently he took it pretty hard.
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Oh I get that, just thought it was strange to speculate on his playing ability or motivation based on the your own assumption of how he is taking his father’s death. We don’t know him (unless you do, then I apologize)
Having lost my father unexpectedly on a family vacation, I can relate, and after some therapy my perspective has evolved. But everyone handles grief differently and it’s based on so many personal factors and experiences, I can tell you it’s far more complex than assuming “he is a shadow of what he was or could be”
Don’t mean to derail either, it’s just that having done through the grieving process of losing my father suddenly, I know there’s very little anyone else other than myself would know about my personal grief experience, and it would be super weird for anyone to make predictions or assumptions about my abilities because of it