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Originally Posted by TrentCrimmIndependent
It's the old illogical "I can change him/her" line of thinking. Or "it will be different with me".
People marry people who got together with them while they were still in their last relationship. And yet, for some reason they tell themselves that person won't up and do the same thing to them in the future when they become unsatisfied in the relationship.
If they'll do it once, they'll do it again. If they do it to begin with it means they don't have healthy beliefs around relationships to begin with.
From what I've heard about pro hockey circles, there are some pretty warped beliefs around monogamy and infidelity is pretty well commonplace. But I'm sure there are plenty of exceptions and decent family-oriented, faithful guys too.
Not that this cheating even has to do with this incident, but more a drunken man's unhinged paranoia.
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We don't know it was cheating, there are many many times some have assumed things about players only to find out they were dealing with something or injured. Despite what might appear obvious, let's not assume and wait for more details. Maybe he said some stuff to another play about his wife we just don't know. The poster assuming she stole his phone isn't right either isn't that what Lucic did and it got out of hand?