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Originally Posted by OldDutch
Why do people get married when they just end up cheating? Men and Women.
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It's the old illogical "I can change him/her" line of thinking. Or "it will be different with me".
People marry people who got together with them while they were still in their last relationship. And yet, for some reason they tell themselves that person won't up and do the same thing to them in the future when they become unsatisfied in the relationship.
If they'll do it once, they'll do it again. If they do it at all it means they don't have healthy beliefs around relationships to begin with.
From what I've heard about pro hockey circles, there are some pretty warped beliefs around monogamy and infidelity is pretty well commonplace. But I'm sure there are plenty of exceptions and decent family-oriented, faithful guys too.
Not that cheating even has to do with this incident, but more a drunken man's unhinged paranoia.