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Originally Posted by shermanator
One thing I'll say about Cavalry is the community that have popped is so awesome. It's a group of folks that I genuinely enjoy seeing and that for the most part really care about each other.
I'm gutted that I can no longer commit to the group the way I was able to that first year, building that scene was so rewarding.
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Knowing that Calgary is now part of the international football world, including transfers, is such a satisfying feeling. The Cavs have really been a fun highlight for my life in the last five years.
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Originally Posted by Ped
I think I'm just a placeholder to most people - someone they can turn to when they have no other option, but as soon as they get that better option, they're gone. It's gone on long enough that I know the issue is with me, but every time I try something, I fail at it. ANd it's not just one or two people, it's everyone.
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Ped - this is not the advice you're probably expecting, but try saying 'no' more often. In fact, a lot more - including to to these fairweather people. Not only is it more honest, it's a major stress reliever to your mental well-being. You're not obligated in life to cater to other people like a floormat. Once I started saying 'no' more often to almost everyone and freed up time and obligation from others, the quality of my daily life significantly improved.