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Originally Posted by PYroMaNiaC

Agreed. So that brings me back to my original statement. Why do men do this? Why not search for a friend that shows more character? Then the men and the women get the best of both worlds - a guy that will listen, be tolerant and sympathetic and the man gets the smart woman who will appreciate all the strengths he brings to the table.

I brought this up in earlier in thread…a lot of guys have the idea that there is one girl and in high school or whatever you see her you become so fully committed to her that it cuts off your vision of other women all you can see is her, and sad part is she just want to be your friend or might not even know your name, they think if they qualify themselves enough to her by doing nice things, like trying to help her with her problems, by her things…and its not like a girl is going to turn it down I mean no guy would, so they just go on with the idea in there head that the more they qualify themselves the better there chances are and that one day she will see, when really they are the ones that are seeing the whole picture