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Originally Posted by J pold
Oh it does happen but usually for the wrong reasons, a girl will start to feel sorry for the guy or they just kind find a better alternative basically it just is not a good situation for either one of them, the girls with always dominate the relationship and there will be no balance, most guys just get stuck in a comfort zone thinking that listening to her problems talking on the phone for hours is going to get her attracted to him when really its not…she just think you’re a friend because you are acting like one
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Agreed. So that brings me back to my original statement. Why do men do this? Why not search for a friend that shows more character? Then the men and the women get the best of both worlds - a guy that will listen, be tolerant and sympathetic and the man gets the smart woman who will appreciate all the strengths he brings to the table.
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