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Old 09-05-2023, 09:55 AM   #107
Russic
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Originally Posted by edslunch View Post
There are increased health risks with older mothers. Something to consider.
Be sure to lead with this and let us know how it goes.

Oversimplification incoming, but it sounds to me like if you don't have the kid you'll feel incredibly guilty for not giving her what she wants, but if you do have the kid, you might be resentful of her. I believe the general advice is if you must choose between guilt and resentment, you go guilt every single time.

But ya, having a kid is probably something that should be a resounding "yes" from both sides.
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