Personally I think both parents need to be a resounding ‘yes’ before having a kid. Parenting is so ####ing hard at times that I think I’d end up feeling resentful towards my wife or kid on the 200th night in a row of waking up at 2am when I didn’t want to be doing this in the first place.
If you do decide yes though, make sure you decide for yourself and get rid of any of those potential resentful feelings.
That being said, I’m not speaking from a position of experience here because my wife and I were done after 2 kids due to medical reasons.
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