In general I feel like the no position should be the default in those kinds of situations since someone feeling forced or coerced into something they don't want feels like it has a bigger chance of causing larger issues down the road.
But as others suggested a professional might help navigate the discussion to a point where neither feel like they're being forced into something they'll regret.
Or you could agree to let the universe decide, don't try but don't not try and if it doesn't happen within a given time frame then so be it?
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