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Originally Posted by PepsiFree
I think you’d be surprised how few healthy relationships exist where this kind of language and this kind of manipulation is used by either partner.
Outside of that, it doesn’t really matter what you think emotional abuse is or what your personal definition is, as there is plenty of literature out there that can enlighten you to what it actually is if you care to learn. Suggesting that 50% of relationships contain this same level of emotional abuse and that someone just bringing up your “brigade” comment also constitutes emotional abuse tells me you’d probably benefit from just a basic reading about it. I don’t entirely see the value in not knowing what it is and then trying to point out situations where it does or doesn’t exist.
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Hang on, I wasn’t really arguing they had a healthy relationship, but not having a healthy relationship does not auto equate to emotional abuse.
My reference to the brigade being emotional abuse is every bit as sarcastic as your rampage the last day or so about me pointing out (correctly) that you are a bully on this website. I find it quite interesting the juxtaposition between your rush to point out injustices in the world and then how you operate on this forum. Now go prove me right again rally the troops in search of thanks and mock me some more. Winning?
I went and read the definition of emotional abuse. I think actually to a certain degree both of us are right. The definition of emotional abuse can be pretty darn far reaching which I would only contest seems so watered down that essentially any minimalizing of others constitutes emotional abuse and so here we are Pepsifree, guess we’re both just in an emotionally abusive relationship on this website together. Now, does that make sense to you?