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Originally Posted by Puxlut
As a female, I am genuinely curious how all you guys decided that this procedure on yourself had to get done? Was it your wife that brought up the subject? Did you offer yourself up as tribute first? From what I am reading, it seems like a simple enough procedure, but was the fear of having more children worth altering your body? I never had this conversation with my husband, as I would never ask of him to do something that seems pretty unnecessary IMO. And at what age were you guys doing this? Late 30’s? 40’s? I started menopause when I was 48, so even if my husband got one done right after the birth of Puxlut Jr. it would have only protected against unwanted pregnancy for 12 years? Just seems odd to me?
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I answered this earlier in the thread, but again also works...I've never, ever wanted to have kids. I've never been on the fence about kids. I've never wanted to deal with them. To me, getting this procedure (I was in my mid 30's) and ensuring that there was no accidents, oops, or anything otherwise, in regards to kids, was a no-brainer.