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Old 06-02-2023, 07:30 AM   #1763
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Originally Posted by Slava View Post
I’d say you have to be really careful with this, because it’s probably a few factors. Yeah, the money is probably a huge one. But then the poor guy has the physical embarrassment of being at the dentist and explaining to someone that he’s never been (or hasn’t in however long), and that’s not going to be fun for him either. Then you have a friend paying the freight, which is likely a huge source of embarrassment for the guy.

It’s not that it’s not coming from the right place or the right reasons, but there’s likely a lot of shame in a situation like this. I don’t have a solution to offer, but like I say, I’d just be really careful about how to handle it.
I know. Should probably mind my own business. I'm sure everyone I know could give me all sorts of tips and tricks, too. I will say this isn't a friend, per se. It's actually somebody I work with and I'd like to help them. I think I'll just sit on this, but I think this problem is getting worse quickly to the point where it can't be ignored and I guess that'll have to be my time to offer help.
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