I made the decision with my kids long ago that we would middle around in mid divisions of minor hockey. Cap spending at about 2500 per kid per year and only commit to one out of town tournament per kid per season. We would much rather travel and see the world, invest in music lessons and science classes instead of 20k per kid per year for camps, skill sessions, training etc.
It also allows me to coach the kids as I think that is a core memory for them. I do all the coaching qualifications and work hard to formulate practice plans but try and make it fun. The reality is that more parents need to remember hockey is for fun, even minor hockey.
Seeing coaches sit kids for poor play in tier 5 makes me sick.
I want my teams to be about gaining valuable skating and hockey skills while having fun and hopefully winning a bunch of games.
My kids will be able to play rec hockey in University, meet some friends and will have a good knowledge of the game and the skills involved. They will also be able to learn about winning, losing with grace annd dignity, hard work and team work.
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