It's wise not to date someone who is mentally a child still. That's something that the mature adult partner needs to determine and act accordingly on
But at a certain point gaps no longer mean much. After 25 and the persons involved are more than capable of making mature decisions
Obviously youthfulness is attractive to men because it signifies fertility, but it's good to know if you're dating someone mature and capable for their age, or immature and therefore vulnerable
But I'm willing to bet there is a faction of men who simply do not care about maturity gaps, and see fetching a 21 year old as a something they can parade about like a trophy where it is more about themselves than finding a meaningful/intellectual connection
I genuinely believe that's the culture around places like LA/hollywood, where circles are particularly superficial in that way
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