guess it's time for my two cents....
doing an action perceived to be "gay" (i.e. having sex with another man if you are male, etc.) is a choice.
Whether you find that you enjoy doing so, or prefer it to doing "straight" things (i.e. having sex with a female if you are male) isn't really a choice. You either feel that way or you don't.
It is the action that is the choice, rather than the state of being. You can choose to experiment and you can choose to break outside general social "norms", but whether or not you enjoy it isn't really a choice. It may be genetic, it may be environmental, it may be random, or it may (as I think it probably is) be a combination of all three, but I don't see how it really matters.
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