I’m not going to win any CP brownie points for this opinion, but as someone who eloped 20 years ago this all seems like such a crazy headache. For this OP and the one in the other thread planning a wedding for 2024 (?!), what if you guys just got married next weekend - it’s totally possible to plan it - then get to enjoy that much more time being married? I think I’m missing the self-celebratory-party-planning chip, but it seems like the more lavish and complex the wedding plan the more stress it creates for all involved. Isn’t being married the point, so why not just hop to it?
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