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Originally Posted by dino7c
Honestly its pretty naive to think this with 75 guests...some people are bitter they are just talking behind your back.
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That wasn't the question. I was asking if people had recommendations on wedding planners, destinations, resorts, etc.
I don't care that some people might be bitter, I don't care whether you or Sliver or anyone else for that matter has an issue with destination weddings either. This is OUR wedding and we can choose what we do for OUR own wedding. We don't need to please everyone and we don't need to cater to the 5-95% of guests that might not show up for said destination wedding. Call it selfish, I don't care. I've been married before and I hated my first wedding. It catered to my ex-wifes family and friends, everything was what THEY wanted, not what WE wanted. Should have known the marriage was doomed from the start.
We have spoken to our closest family and friends and we decided together that a destination wedding is what we want. So that is what we're going to do. In fact, two other couples in our friend group are now thinking about joining us and having up to 3 weddings during that week, so that we can all enjoy a holiday together and be there for each others weddings. If people want to come, great! If they don't want to come or can't afford to, that's fine too! The only ones that would hold a grudge or be bitter are people we wouldn't want coming to the wedding anyway. Period.
These open forum communities are going to #### because of these people that constantly feel the need to #### on everyone's threads and posts. I was looking for recommendations and help planning OUR destination wedding, something that my fiance and I are both very excited to plan. And yet I come in here and see all these negative comments, from people providing no real input, other than it's selfish? Yeah... Thanks for contributing...
The constant negativity coming from random people online and on social media, that's the real pandemic these days IMO
*Again thank you to all those that actually had some helpful input and those that sent me recommendations through PM and email. Appreciate all your help!