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Originally Posted by Fighting Banana Slug
To me the destination stag/stagettes are far more egregious. From my experience, there is an actual expectation that the invitees show and pony up. Destination Weddings? It seems like a good way to cull the numbers and no one really cares if some one shows up. Bulit-in excuse to keep it small.
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Absolutely destination stag parties are ridiculous, my wife and I never had one and treated our destination wedding as it. I've since talked to my groomsmen and one of them suggested still doing a stag in Wacken Germany for a metal music fest in a few years. Everyone was receptive to the idea, but all of us are metal heads and it will be treated more like a guys trip. Other friends are going to be invited too but once again there won't be hard feelings if someone no shows.
My wife will probably do something similar with her girlfriends.