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Originally Posted by Sliver
Hahahaha "...do whatever you want. It's for you and your partner"
That's the fataing definition of selfish. I mean, I took my guests into consideration in my wedding and reception, as most do. I try not to treat loved ones and friends as extras in my story. If you do, go nuts, but at least acknowledge that is selfish lol.
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There is nothing inherent about weddings that is owed to anyone other than two people committing their life to each other. Anything else is societal and family pressures.
Every couple is entitled to the wedding the want. I laugh at the idea of someone thinking anything other than that. Want to elope? Do it. Want to do a destination wedding? Do it. Huge 300 person party? Awesome. It’s their choice and their choice alone. The nature of the beast promotes selfishness, as it should. So it’s laughable to call it out and make anyone feel crappy for it.