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Originally Posted by KTrain
A destination wedding is the most selfish thing you can do for your celebration unless you're paying for all the people you invite to attend.
"BuT ThEy DoN't HaVe To CoMe!".
Instead you're sending them on a guilt trip for choosing finances over friendship. Choosing to use their vacation time how they want instead of your plans. Buying clothes they'll never wear again so everyone in the party can match.
The best weddings I've been to recently involved the couple eloping and throwing a cheap reception for friends and family afterwards.
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Anyone that gets upset about people not being able to attend either local or destination needs to check their expectations. I'd even go so far as to say that anyone who goes on any sort of guilt trip or power trip over someone else decision is a friend that is worth losing.