A destination wedding is the most selfish thing you can do for your celebration unless you're paying for all the people you invite to attend.
"BuT ThEy DoN't HaVe To CoMe!".
Instead you're sending them on a guilt trip for choosing finances over friendship. Choosing to use their vacation time how they want instead of your plans. Buying clothes they'll never wear again so everyone in the party can match.
The best weddings I've been to recently involved the couple eloping and throwing a cheap reception for friends and family afterwards.
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