Agree with Getback, don't pay anything until its all settled. And then if/when that time comes and you think it is best for the relationship to pay her out, you can use the tax/fees piece to help sell whatever amount you so choose to pay her (if less than 50%)
In addition to 'planting' those seeds around total amount, if you feel like you will ultimately pay her anything, I would tell your sister before your mom does. Let her know he left you as sole executor and benefactor but you'lll share it with her once its all settled and you see how much taxes and fees end up being. Then the whole thing is hopefully painted in a 'you being generous' light, vs a greedy light.
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