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Originally Posted by Twitchy15
Nice to hear the various different opinions. I have a good relationship with my sister. I don’t even know if she expects any money. I was planning on giving my sister some money, don’t think I personally before thought I would give 50% due to her not being in his life for 15 years and him depending on me to help him with everything he needed towards the end and getting no help from her.
Just kind of angry today is my first normal day since his passing to just sit down and think and she comes attacking me about money and other bull#### not related.
I think in my moms opinion as well is that I need the money less compared to my sister. I’m married and both have normal decent jobs. Where my sister lives at home works for minimum wage and has unknown health problems making her life difficult.
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With you saying you're very close with your sister, it adds even more reason for me to say that you should split it 50/50 with her. You could change the percent split but then she'll wonder why only 30 or 25 and given you're so close to her, it's not worth second guessing yourself later why you felt you needed to be judge and jury when an even split would've prevented all of that. Sorry for your loss.