Sorry for your loss.
It's your money to do with as you wish.
That being said, if it was me, I would split it with my sibling. It sounds like he was a difficult person to have a relationship with and your sister may have done what she needed to do for her own peace of mind. I think the choice comes down to - share the money and do what you can so the rest of your family has a better relationship than the one your dad had, or keep it and continue with the tradition of difficult relationships.
Finally, I think there's absolutely nothing wrong with saying you want to wait a few weeks / month / whatever before you deal with it.
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