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Originally Posted by Aarongavey
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The 8 guys say it was consensual. Also say some of the guys participated in consensual sex and some of the guys were just hanging out. My wife told me that she has never heard of any of her friends participating in a consensual 9 person sexual act, but maybe all her girlfriends and all the gossip she and they have heard over 30+ years are just women that do not willingly participate in such activities. Or maybe these guys are full of ####.
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Being part of group sex is a very private thing, particularly for women who are stigmatized for them. Also, just because it isn't something that your wife doesn't mean it isn't something others are, even her friends. They may not feel comfortable and that it is a safe space to talk about their sex life. While I don't know anyone that's been in a nine-some, I do know girls (consensual) in foursome and fivesome; also, orgies due exist that girls are in.
Due to the sensitive nature of group sex and stigmas, I could see a situation where it comes out, and someone lies to save face saying it wasn't consensual. I'm not saying that the complainant or anyone is lying in this situation.
Our societies opinion on sex is very imature and causes a lot of problems because we don't accept people for who they are.
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