the comment of the man or not thing is a bad look but really should have just been worded differently to achieve (what I think) is the same / similar meaning. "Lack of character", "dishonest", "weasely" etc. all get the same message across which is basically you don't like how he handled the situation.
You don't need to bring up "manhood" or whatever else, it's not really relevant and undermines your own argument because it gets people focused on something negative / toxic vs. what you're actually trying to convey which is a lot more of a fair comment.
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