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Originally Posted by djsFlames
Thought Johnny would've individuated from mom and dad enough at this point tbh.
On one hand its good to honour your family and consider them, but on the other Gross said it was a family decision, and at 29 you can't have mom influencing your decisions any more. He's an adult and has the ability to make his own decisions and it looks like he went to his parents for approval and obviously mom would prefer him being closer.
That and leaving it to the last minute strikes me as kind of an immature handling of this whole thing.
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Ugh....... I'm in my 40's with a young family, and I literally was influenced by what quadrant in the city I live in to optimize distance from extended family.
Your thought that a 29 year old shouldn't be connected to Mom and Dad lacks perspective.