I wouldn't judge any parents that have 3 kids and a messy house. I just fully expect that its a given.
Cleaning up after myself already takes enough work, forget two or three other humans that will go out of their way to make a clutter.
The mystery to me is in wanting a family that large. I'd have to really love and respect my partner & what they bring to the table to take that on. That's a life sentence in many ways.
I generally just try to let people do them and not pass judgment, at least until they invite me over to sit and watch a movie in cat/dog hair. Then they put me in a tough position. Use your vacuum..please, at the bare minimum.
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