One on one time with each of your kids is never a bad idea. I would recommend doing something with each child, based on their interests.
There's never anything wrong with doing these events more, unless it ends up being only one kid gets the special time. But people have busy lives, so it's also understandable if you can only do it occasionally. The important thing is don't make promises you can't keep. A once a month outing that actually happens is better than weekly outings that often get cancelled.
You could also get her one of those wall calendars that people don't use anymore and put a picture on the day when they outing is planned, so that she has a visual reminder that it is happening and when it is. When you put her to bed, look at the calendar together and count how many days or "sleeps" until your outing.
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