Sending a child to a Catholic school is not giving them a choice in the same way that if you sent a child to a school that advocates atheism is not giving them a choice. Yes, the child can change it's mind later in life, but the indoctrination either way can make that choice very hard or impossible. Ideally it would be fair to school your child in a religious neutral zone (such as public school). Now whether or not the best decision to teach or not teach them about religion is up in the air in my books.
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