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Originally Posted by GreenLantern2814
Ask her to marry you.
Once that’s out of the way, Get married and do it small - like immediate family + best friends max.
You’ll actually get to enjoy your wedding, and save a ton of money.
This latest Covid wave is a perfect time to do it too; you don’t have to justify your decision to any of your tertiary friends And family, you can just say “####in Covid eh” and you’re off the hook.
Oh, and don’t listen to the bitter old men who lament marriage because they chose poorly.
Good luck.
Oh, and clean every surface of your apartment.
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100% true. We went this route and it made things so much easier/smoother. I was really nervous about a big wedding, I just don't like being the center of attention. Well I mean she would be far more than me but attention by association.
So we went with a small wedding with immediate family only. I had by best friend as bestman and she had hers for made of honour but past that, it was just parents.
It was awesome. I felt bad for her at first as it wasn't quite what she wanted but she has said many times it was perfect and she was 100% happy with it.
I think big weddings are just too much. Way too much time/money/pressure.