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Originally Posted by CroFlames
The GMG thread inspired me to seek consultation here.
I'm an early 30s guy, but I've always looked older than I am (tall, dark, handsome, etc). This has actually worked to my advantage in the business world I think.
Now I look like I'm in my late 30s due to this condition, and a little bit of thinning at the top.
I want a new work wardrobe, so I'm looking for ideas. I work in a pretty relaxed office environment (dark jeans acceptable) but I still want to look good, and maybe more youthful if that makes sense. I bought a couple of chino pants, but I don't know what to pair them with and such. Ideally, if I could have about 10-12 work outfits I rotate, that would be fantastic. I have a few blazer jackets that are too fancy for our office environment, and I typically wear those to meetings with clients or conferences.
I guess I'm not looking to spend $1200 on shoes, but I'm also open to spending a little more than $120 on them to look good. Same for the rest of the wardrobe.
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Shoes:
Shoes are like watches - some people are way too into them and most people don't care. It doesn't sound like you want to take a deep dive into shoes and the different types and style debate going on - which is fine.
Invest in a pair of Chelsea boots - black and brown. They are stylish with jeans, chinos, even suits in some circumstances:
They come in all different shades, styles (more casual to dressy) and material (leather / suede)
I think Ted Baker makes good quality shoe for a decent price - and has sales so you can get some under $100.00 in some cases. Don't pay an arm and a leg for nice shoes. Again, just like watches, the majority of people don't notice the difference and if they do, you don't really want to talk to that person anyway.
You can get a solid pair of shoes for ~$200.
Pants:
Your office sounds decently casual. I would recommend chinos. They are cheaper than nice jeans and look more professional. They pair better with blazers and sport coats than jeans in most cases too. Also, they are more comfortable and (IMO) more versatile for everyday life.
It sucks, but the best way to find a pay that fits you is to try them all. Banana Republic, the Gap, J Crew, Club Monaco, Ted Baker, Frank & Oak, RW&Co, Nordstrom etc. Go to town and find the ones that fit the best - slim but not skin tight, tapered leg, not too long to break (the crease from resting on your shoe) too much (if at all) on your pants - you being taller it would probably be best to have a little break.
Generally stick to neutral colours at first, but don't be afraid of some deep colours - forest green or dark burgundy can look great.
Shirts:
Pepsifree had great advice. Go casual. Don't go to Brook Bros and buy a bunch of oxford shirts to wear unless you are wearing suits or business casual with a tie. Pick something off white. no black. Light blue is a workhorse. Buttoned lapels offer a great addition to express dress casual.
You don't need to spend more than $150 for a nice shirt. Many you can get around $100 - 120. again key is to try a lot on and find one that works. Keep an eye on sales.
I have... issues... with polo shirts. To me they just scream old man or a young person who never had a fashion style suited for professionals. You look like a golfer, there is no way around it. Invest in lighter material shirts. In an office, i would still stick with longer sleeve button downs.
With the right shirt, you can stop right here. Roll up the sleeves to just below the elbow and you will look great. Keep a sport coat in the office for meetings and done.
Jackets/sweaters:
I think even in casual offices wearing a sport coat is fair game and you wouldnt look over dressed. Stick to materials that are a bit heavier than a suit. Don't wear a suit jacket without suit pants. textured sport coats are perfect. Make sure it fits in the shoulder and is long enough at the waist. Everything else can be fixed for little cost. Sport coats can last for a long time.
If that doesnt work, grab a few cotton/cashmere sweaters to throw on over a button down. Also look at cardigans if that is your cup of tea. Some don't like the look.