[undercoverbrother]

Originally Posted by FlamesAddiction

The way I look at it, HIV transmission is number one, a lifestyle issue. The lifestyle they promote would be effective at reducing transmission of the virus, but considering the amount of discipline and willpower it can take, it is not going to work all the time. For that reason, they shouldn't discourage condom use as it is a public health matter. I think the way they look at, and just guessing, is that failing to hold your urges is a sin, but is easily forgivable because the aftermath probably involves real remorse. Having condoms ready for use shows an intent or premeditation to committing a sin, therefore makes it worse. But if you already have one and you plan on breaking the other rules, you might as well use it. I disagree with the stance, but I can see the moral dilemma a devout Christian might have.

To put it another way, if a Catholic already has a sex life that puts him at risk, that person is already likely sinning in the eyes of God. At that point, not using condoms is a personal choice and not a religious one. It's a convenient excuse to tell their partner though I guess.

I personally think the bigger issue is birth control and population control. I can't find any moral argument to discourage condom use for that purpose.

So to be clear, love and the consensual expression of love is a bad thing.

Come on Catholics, et al be better.