[flamesfever]

I can't help thinking something is amiss when neighbors fight over a pile of winter dog sh**, and end up becoming enemies. My first move would be to do nothing, and wait to see if he cleans it up come spring. Then if things don't improve, and especially if there is a noticeable odour, I think looking the neighbor in the eye, and discussing your concern in a cool, respectful manner is the way to address the situation. informing the bylaw people should be a last resort. The above is a good example of what sort of reaction that step can generate.

I think it's important that people spend time trying to cultivate a friendly relationship with their neighbors, as soon as possible after moving in. Things like taking over a welcome present, having conversations over an adjoining fence, discussing common interests like kids, dogs, sports etc. are all things that help develop a rapport.

We have lived in our house for over 50 years, and I guess we have been lucky, as we have never had a bad neighbor.