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Originally Posted by undercoverbrother
Do you still think this is "bad relationship move on" territory?
It's a bad look on you dude
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Why is it a bad look?
I asked what the actual accusation was, and in the four stories there’s only 1 specific example which is exceptionally vague. I don’t know if I’d consider myself the victim of sexual assault when my partner wakes me up with a sexual act, but clearly that’s not exactly what she experienced.
In any case, I’m not defending the guy; I’m just trying to understand. PTSD, long term mental anguish, nightmares... that’s some pretty heavy #### for several women to go through in seemingly short, childless relationships.
Again, I’m in no position to say what isn’t sexual assault. But when I see ‘rape’ and ‘gaslighting’ used in the same vein I can’t help but question.
Guess I’m a terrible person?