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Originally Posted by undercoverbrother
Yeah dude, that's easy to say, but harder to do. There are spouses that stay in non-abusive relationships/marriages just out of fear of change.
Throw in some physical or mental abuse and it changes everything.
I don't think you are being flippant with your comment so don't get me wrong, it just isn't as easy a leaving.
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Exactly. What some apparently fail to understand is when you're in a bad relationship it is not ALL bad. There is often many good things you don't want to let go. And like you said the fear of change, also the fear of feeling like you are a failure because you couldn't make the relationship work.