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Originally Posted by afc wimbledon
my experiance of family court is to some degree the texts arent going to matter that much, the court is about as powerless to enforce visitation as it is child support, they dont want to jail anyone so you can prove that your ex is a total cow to you and they can do little more than tell her to be nicer, you arent going to find a single 'solution' through court, you may end up going back and forth to court endlessly just to hear the court say 'Ms Smith you cannot stop your ex from seeing his child' she will say sorry and promise not to do it again, get pissed at you a week later do exactly the same thing and nothing will happen, this may be your cross to bare for a while
My ex was easier to deal with once we finally had the divorce settled, she was a complete bitch during the seperation period, she was never easy though, I was always walking on egg shells trying not to piss her off, never let her know I was dating or happy, that seemed to be a challenge to her to ruin my life in some small petty way.
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That's what it's starting to look like...hopeless. Our separation has been settled and the agreement signed for over a year now.
The part that's really starting to get to me is that she can apparently to whatever she wants with no recourse, while everyone tells me to mind my myself.
I'm not even sure why I got a separation agreement drawn up as everyone tells me there's no consequences if she doesn't follow it.