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Merry Christmas Eve Everyone!

I had a quick question for a lawyer regarding 'without prejudice' letters I've been receiving from my ex wife's lawyer.

They are basically telling me they no longer want to follow our signed separation agreement. The letter says "Client X does not accept your terms to pick up your child, do not show up to pick him up."

Now my question is, if this letter cannot be used in court, why on earth would I listen to it? This is one of two letters so far where they inform me they are no longer following our signed agreement.

Obviously they are doing this because the courts are closed and my lawyer is off work until Jan 4.

Is 'without prejudice' a get out of jail free card? Or is there something I will be able to do about this at some point?

I'm beyond devastated that I apparently don't get to have my son this Christmas vacation (save Christmas day for 33 hours). I guess that's what happens when you lose your job for 3 months and have to cut child support back!

Thanks if anyone has any insight, I know this isn't legal advice I just keep trying to bend these WP letters around my head and don't understand their use in this context.