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Originally Posted by cannon7
This mother had many options. I don't claim to know which she pursued.
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But let's condemn her and his parents for it anyways!
I like that in the same paragraph you scoff at victim blaming and then go on to say that it's the victim's fault for giving the bully what they want.
To be honest, I didn't think you were super unreasonable to start. Just a bit generous with you're willingness to assume the good in people and provide second chances. Almost a sweet naivety to believe he was changed and is a great person now absent of any evidence of that (namely apologizing in earnest to his victim).
But now bending over backwards to blame everyone and everything but him, including bringing up a mental condition that no one has suggested about this person, seems to me that you're just cool with what he did and don't see it as a big deal.