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Originally Posted by Mr.Coffee
I'm sorry... I don't know if i'm like a 1960's prude here or whatever but there seems to be too much "Ok-ness" (i realise thats not a word) with people moving in on other's relationships. I am well aware of the fact taht if your relationship is going well then there's nothing to worry about or shouldn't be... and blah blah blah don't be overprotective but I think there's some respect lacking when no matter who it is is fair game regardless of relationship status. Or am I wrong here?
There seems to be no end of stories about some dude cheating on some girl, or some girl cheating on some guy. I think that's pretty much the most selfish, disrespectful thing one can do, and I think actions like cheating on another have far more disastrous consequences then society would like us to believe (it can hurt a lot more then we'd like to think).
So while your out and about purposely trying to destroy another person's life so that you can feel happy, maybe take a look around and realise that there are other fish in the sea, no?
Occasionally I realise that love or infatuation is inevidable, sometimes you can't help it, and all that other crap- but if you are only mildly interested and the fact that he/she is in a relationship doesn't make you change your mind... well... that's a pretty sad thing.
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That's why I said slow and steady, I'm just going to be the intriguing guy she leaves her boyfriend for (best case scenerio), but I'm not going to constantly ask her out, or try to get her in the sac while she's dating someone. If she wants to go further then hanging out once then choose. And poor luck for whoever gets the shaft.