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Mr.Coffee · 02-14-2007, 12:00 AM

I'm sorry... I don't know if i'm like a 1960's prude here or whatever but there seems to be too much "Ok-ness" (i realise thats not a word) with people moving in on other's relationships. I am well aware of the fact taht if your relationship is going well then there's nothing to worry about or shouldn't be... and blah blah blah don't be overprotective but I think there's some respect lacking when no matter who it is is fair game regardless of relationship status. Or am I wrong here?

There seems to be no end of stories about some dude cheating on some girl, or some girl cheating on some guy. I think that's pretty much the most selfish, disrespectful thing one can do, and I think actions like cheating on another have far more disastrous consequences then society would like us to believe (it can hurt a lot more then we'd like to think).

So while your out and about purposely trying to destroy another person's life so that you can feel happy, maybe take a look around and realise that there are other fish in the sea, no?

Occasionally I realise that love or infatuation is inevidable, sometimes you can't help it, and all that other crap- but if you are only mildly interested and the fact that he/she is in a relationship doesn't make you change your mind... well... that's a pretty sad thing.

02-14-2007, 12:00 AM	#464
Mr.Coffee damn onions Join Date: Mar 2006 Exp:	I'm sorry... I don't know if i'm like a 1960's prude here or whatever but there seems to be too much "Ok-ness" (i realise thats not a word) with people moving in on other's relationships. I am well aware of the fact taht if your relationship is going well then there's nothing to worry about or shouldn't be... and blah blah blah don't be overprotective but I think there's some respect lacking when no matter who it is is fair game regardless of relationship status. Or am I wrong here? There seems to be no end of stories about some dude cheating on some girl, or some girl cheating on some guy. I think that's pretty much the most selfish, disrespectful thing one can do, and I think actions like cheating on another have far more disastrous consequences then society would like us to believe (it can hurt a lot more then we'd like to think). So while your out and about purposely trying to destroy another person's life so that you can feel happy, maybe take a look around and realise that there are other fish in the sea, no? Occasionally I realise that love or infatuation is inevidable, sometimes you can't help it, and all that other crap- but if you are only mildly interested and the fact that he/she is in a relationship doesn't make you change your mind... well... that's a pretty sad thing.