[djsFlames]

Sometimes out is a relief.

That's why your friend was suddenly relaxed.

Its a weird position to take, but I'm a believer that there is total freedom and peace on the other side and I dont blame someone for opting for that when just dealing with the day to day feels so frequently overwhelming, cause I've been there.

I'd always advocate to keep trying to overcome things and just to try your best and know that its enough, but sometimes reality just takes such a toll that you're just perpetually tired inside and out, and you've just had enough. And its no ones fault in particular as to how you got there but you just know you're ready for peace/a release.

Any person would do a lot of thinking beforehand and certainly wouldn't want people that have continued to stick around to beat themselves up over it. We all make decisions for ourselves and our needs. Sometimes that's what it comes to. If you believe that being here in this existence is just a small part of your total existence then it doesn't feel like a huge offence or tragedy, but just another step in the natural progression of things.

A lot of life is contrast and suffering. Death is instant peace from that. That isn't the part we should be sad about. Its what people silently go through while they are here. If we can limit that and help people feel included and valued wherever we go, then we help make this existence preferable to the alternstive for more people.