I hear that feedback and will aim to avoid in the future
I agree we shouldn’t judge those that leave nor praise that don’t.
Though we tend to have mental models of what marriages and families look like they are each unique to themselves. I’m often struck by people who easily offer opinions on someone else’s family life. For instance my wife and I have been judged harshly by many for choosing to have just one child...being called selfish. Drives me nuts
So as such I try not to judge the decisions others make about their own families.
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