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Originally Posted by Crazy Flamer
This sounds like you're getting closer and closer to the "friend" label, which is the kiss of death.
If you want to be with her, tell her how you feel but say you also can''t hang out with her because you have feelings for her and you also don't want to mess up what she has with her current bf. This puts more pressure onher to really evaluate her current situation. But if she knows youre going to be around waiting for her, she will be in no rush to break up with her boyfriend.
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Ah but you have to play it right. It also depends on how much you want her because one of the three parties involved is going to get their feelings hurt. I would not tell her that you can't hang out with her, that makes you look bad you lose points for that. Just become scarce. I don't know how often you guys hang out but reduce it, make it a treat to hang out with you. Or get really drunk with her and sleep together, that'll throw a wrench into her relationship. The girl I talked about on the last page broke up with her boyfriend on Monday night and my last girlfriend also had a boyfriend when I met her(that one was easy her bf was a huge asshat). I apparently am attracted to other people's girlfriend.