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Originally Posted by Caged Great
Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.
This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.
I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.
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This sounds like you're getting closer and closer to the "friend" label, which is the kiss of death.
If you want to be with her, tell her how you feel but say you also can''t hang out with her because you have feelings for her and you also don't want to mess up what she has with her current bf. This puts more pressure onher to really evaluate her current situation. But if she knows youre going to be around waiting for her, she will be in no rush to break up with her boyfriend.