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Originally Posted by icarus
I think in that situation you just keep things status quo for the time being. Let her have her internal debates and don't get involved in that. You don't want to be an accessory to breaking up her relationship and you also don't want to screw things up with her by saying something. You should just do nothing for the time being and let her sort through things on her own. If you try to influence things you will just make things more complicated for her. Leave it alone and soon enough she'll come around all on her own.
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well... that would be the nice thing to do. I am not saying that it isn't what you should do, but do what you feel you can live with. I am currently pursuing a girl with a boyfriend and right now it seems that I am probably going to come out on top. I've been completely respectful of their relationship, except when we are drunk together, we dont do anything physical but we do flirt, talk about things, etc... Couple things you have to remember if you go this route. First, if you break up a relationship be prepared for a relationship. It is highly likely she's going to want to be in a relationship with you if she ended one for you. Actually there isn't a couple things there's only one. Icarus' approach is the nice guy approach and you can never go wrong with that approach. My approach is the you only live once approach and you don't want to potentially miss a great opportunity to fall in love...