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Originally Posted by Caged Great
Ok, I have an odd situation myself and am not sure what to do.
This friend of mine and I have been hanging out quite a lot recently (just us), and when she's with me, she complains about her boyfriend almost constantly (they've been together for 7 months) and she's even said that it was just bad timing that she met him before she met me otherwise we'd be going out.
I'm just torn, because I do like her, but I don't want to interfere with their relationship and I don't know how exactly to approach it.
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I think in that situation you just keep things status quo for the time being. Let her have her internal debates and don't get involved in that. You don't want to be an accessory to breaking up her relationship and you also don't want to screw things up with her by saying something. You should just do nothing for the time being and let her sort through things on her own. If you try to influence things you will just make things more complicated for her. Leave it alone and soon enough she'll come around all on her own.