[J pold]

Originally Posted by FireFly

That's the problem though, J pold. You're asking girls your own age. How many 20 year old girls want a long term, stable relationship? Are they looking for a fling? Do they even know? At 20, I had no idea what the heck I wanted. Be patient. There are 20 year olds that are looking for stability, but you may not find someone until you (and they) are 25 when they're more stable themselves. Perhaps try looking at older ladies that know what they want.

And I'm NOT a Mrs. That's Ms. to you!

Lets not forget here I am 20 as well, I don’t want any sort of serious relationship hell like you said I don’t even know what I want…well that’s not true I like action just as much as the next guy but I don’t want some 25 year old taking to be about her RSVPs and feelings and stuff come on!!